The easiest person to ignore is yourself
It’s one of my talents. Ignoring myself. I can give great advice to others, I can even give great advice to myself. But the problem with advice is you have to do something with it. Ignore it, dismiss it, listen to it, act on it. My advice to myself just hangs there, above my head, like some kind of optimistic cloud following me around, hoping one day I might look up and see it… so now its time to listen, and act on what I hear.
Is busyness holding you back?
Too much stuff, too much busyness, too much ‘to-do-list-itous’ is not the same as being productive. The feeling of having ‘a lot on’ is not the same as making progress. And when you finish each day exhausted but you still feel like you haven’t achieved anything, then stuckness sets in.
The gift of cliche, give cliches a chance
Most cliche givers means well. Their advice is drawn from set pieces, well-trodden paths, and as Russell Brand says ‘things that people say when they cant think quick enough to say anything else’. It’s painful to hear because it doesn’t feel its offering much. Cliches carry little comfort, wisdom or advice. And often cliches are totally untrue, or at least the sentiment is not true.
The power of a 'reframe'... even doing your annual accounts can be enjoyable!
From dreading doing my accounts, to planning 2019, to launching an online course on how to launch a product based business! My tax return turned out to be a lot more pleasurable than I’d imaged!
Garden leave, pleasures and pains
What are you supposed to do, because although you are not physically constrained, you are released back into the world, on full pay but you aren’t completely free. You can be called back to work at any time. You definitely can’t start another job, and you really shouldn’t be talking to competitors. So all you can really be doing is… gardening. If you have one.
Voluntary redundancy - is now the time? Get your escape plan ready
Tis the season to be jolly. All across the land … corporations will now be reviewing budgets, looking at growth plans and looking to get ‘lean’ so that they can deliver a strong end of year (financial year). And that lean thinking can be solved with getting rid of a few people. Is now the right time to think about volunteering for redundancy? Get your escape plan ready.
Dear Rebound, It's not you, it's me - it's time to move on
So you got made redundant. You went on a wild search to find another job. You found another job. You took that job. It’s now 6 months later and you aren’t feeling great. It’s time to break up with the Rebound job.
To Debenham's employees... have hope, this could be the start of something good
What happens when your company goes out of business? You start the job hunt. You sign on at the local job centre and get recommendations for hotel and restaurant work. There are jobs out there, your skill is needed. But what if there were even more options, in fact options that might change your life and the way you work?
How to be made redundant
Have you ever been made redundant? Do you know someone who has been made redundant?
It’s not the greatest day of your life… but it might be the greatest thing that happened to you.
The life changing magic of sorting your shhht out
As I drove along the M4 the thought crossed my mind that I have no idea what the next 3 days would involve. The M4 soon turned into the A40, then the narrow, winding lanes of the A478 to Cardigan, and I really started to wonder. What are the Do Lectures? Why did I sign up for this? I’m about to find out…
At what point are you allowed to celebrate?
I’ve been working on my new business for months now… probably years if you include the first ideas and experiments! In the last few weeks I have spent every day developing the product. I hesitated getting started at first. What if it’s nonsense. What if it doesn’t work. But after reading a lot of books, following a lot of entrepreneurs on Instagram, it was time to ‘stop talking, start doing’ as Shaa Wasmund would say.